Why You NEED to Wait to Date After Divorce
Scrolling dating apps after your divorce? Feeling the pull to fill the void with someone new? I get it, but here's what you need to know: dating too soon keeps you from becoming who you're meant to be.
We dive into the real dangers of jumping into dating before you're ready: attracting the same type of person, missing red flags you're now trained to ignore, and robbing yourself of the transformation waiting for you. We reframe this year not as punishment or loneliness, but as your Year of Empowerment, a season to reclaim your identity, set boundaries you've never had, and build the foundation for truly healthy love.
You'll hear practical advice on navigating singleness, investing in yourself, and why the best relationship you can have right now is with God and with yourself. If Part 1 convinced you to wait, Part 2 shows you exactly how to make that year count. This isn’t about deprivation—it's about alignment, clarity, and choosing connection that lets you stay you.
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In This Episode
00:00 Introduction and Welcome
01:34 The Pull Toward Dating Too Soon
02:32 Your Year of Empowerment
03:30 Reclaiming Your Authentic Self
05:00 Navigating Life Changes
13:02 Healing Through Self-Care + Growth
13:38 Deepening Your Relationship with God
14:40 Closing Encouragement
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