What I Learned From My Failed Marriage
When everything in your marriage is collapsing on the inside — even if it looks fine on the outside — you start asking questions you never imagined you’d have to face.
In Part 2 of my story, I share a pivotal moment of clarity I believe God gave me… a moment that confirmed what my heart already knew but was terrified to admit. I talk about the final moments that made staying feel impossible, the fear of what leaving would mean, and the unexpected peace that came when I finally chose God’s validation over everyone else’s opinions.
I open up about the isolation I felt, the silence around hidden abuse, and my hope that society and the church will grow in supporting women walking through situations like mine — gently, wisely, and without dismissing their pain.
If you’ve been wrestling with the question, “Is this bad enough to leave?” this part of my story may help you see things with more clarity, validate what you’ve been feeling, and remind you that God meets you even in the hardest truths.
This isn’t just a story about my marriage falling apart.
It’s the story of how faith carried me… and how I learned to trust that I could hear God for myself again. 🤍
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In This Episode
00:00 Introduction to My Journey
01:08 Facing the Reality of Divorce
02:20 Recognizing Toxic and Destructive Behaviors
04:20 Taking Steps Toward Separation
05:13 The Hardest Decision
06:14 Life After Divorce
07:08 Understanding Emotional and Psychological Abuse
07:52 Encouragement and Support
13:51 God’s Guidance and Free Will
15:40 Moving Forward with Faith
22:35 Final Thoughts and Prayers
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I’m not a licensed therapist, medical professional, or attorney. The stories, insights, and reflections I share through the Validated podcast, website, and downloadable resources are based on my personal experiences, perspectives, and opinions. Identifying details have been changed or omitted to protect privacy.
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